As I mentioned it in my other blogs, I went to a middle and high school in the United States (Door County) where I experienced bullying and discrimination because I was from Mexico and was learning English as my second language. I don’t remember being part of a bullying prevention program because I never reported any bullying. I do not know if they had a program. If they did, I was not aware of it.
I think bullying is very scary and damaging to kids. Kids who bully other kids sometimes are being bullied themselves. At Nicolet Elementary, bullying is taken very seriously. I have been in meetings that I had to translate for parents whose kids had been bullied by other kids. Kids who had been bullied did not want to go to school and had serious problems at home, according to the parents. I know that, at Nicolet, kids who bully other kids can get suspended if the bullying does not stop. Both the parents of the kids who get bullied and also the bully’s parents get called to school to talk to the teachers and principal about any bullying problem. I know the school counselor has also worked with kids who are involved in bullying.
Cyber bullying is also something that needs to be addressed, especially now that all kids have access to the internet. Adults need to be aware when children use the internet, and monitor the websites that they go into. Adults especially need to monitor the use of social networking sites such as facebook. I translated a document for the counselor about computer safety and cyber bullying. It basically had information about the dangers of the internet and cyber bullying. It stated that most cyber bullying takes place on social networking sites. Working at Nicolet Elementary, I have not seen too many bullying incidents. I think the staff does a great job of recognizing and addressing any bullying problems immediately.
Edison Middle School has the Student Support Personnel Team (SSPT). The SSPT works with students who are struggling with anger and social skill development in a small group setting. They work with the students to develop the skills needed to become a responsible student at Edison. The staff feels that all the kids deserve to be in a safe and secure place. They feel they can achieve that by doing things such as active student supervision, facilitation of conflict mediation, and development and implementation of the “Edison Way.”
Marco Olson Guillén